“Don’t ever go back to what broke you. Remember why you left.”— amazingmovement.com
(via hypnoskid)
"Mitt i skiten finns det ändå bra människor"
- Ett av stadens fyllon (via skrivandet)
(via februaristorm)
Too many young people being pressured to have their life together instead of just enjoying it.
(via trust)
"I was so focused on making you happy that I forgot that I’m supposed to be happy too."
- (via difficult)
(via superjullan)
you: borderlines are manipulative
me, an intellectual and a borderline: as children, borderlines often do not receive adequate love, affection, and attention from people who are supposed to give exactly that (such as parents, but there can also be other sources). as a result, we crave it as older people and feel that we must do Extra in order to earn it because doing Enough when we were young still didnt result in a substantial amount of validation. however, because borderlines are often also put down, ceaselessly criticized, and even possibly bullied or abused/neglected as children, we feel we dont deserve the attention we end up getting so we split on ourselves and spiral into self hate. which leads into another thing people seem to forget: borderlines feel emotions in the extreme, meaning we are not being manipulative when you ask how we are and we answer "dramatically" because thats truly how we feel. we are being honest about how "extreme" we feel and how we need attention and love now to make up for childhood trauma; we are not innately manipulative.